#### Posts Tagged as "confidence"

## How to raise a math-confident daughter (or son) (1)

Friday, January 15th, 2016*That’s me speaking at AAUW’s Tech Savvy event for 6th-9th grade girls and their parents!*

Is your child **plagued by math anxiety**, even though they’re already busting their butt?

Or do you really want to support **your child to be truly math-confident**, but don’t know how to connect with them about math?

I recently got to speak to parents about **“How to Raise a Math-Confident Daughter (or Son)”**, and the response was so phenomenal that I wanted to share the highlights with you!

This approach totally works whether you’re coming at it from a parenting perspective or applying it in your own classroom or community.

I’ve come to understand that **being math-confident all comes down to developing and nurturing a Mastery Mindset.**

1. The first piece of a mastery mindset is to have a **Growth Mindset** – knowing that math is a skill that everyone can nurture and develop with effort. (Carol Dweck has an awesome body of research about this.)

One of the ways I help my students develop a growth mindset is through **using empathy to create an atmosphere of camaraderie and trust**, so students feel really safe to talk about what they don’t understand.

I’ve come to understand that **what keeps us from understanding math isn’t our intellect, but our emotions**. And instead of ignoring our emotions, we can respect them and work with them as a tool to create mastery.

For example, there’s a student who came to me at the end of her Algebra 2 year. Math felt like a foreign language to her. ** By working with her emotions explicitly as part of our work**, she ended up becoming the star of her pre-calculus class, nailing her oral final in front of her entire class, and enrolling in Calculus because math became something she loved.

An easy way that you can start to use empathy to develop a growth mindset is just to ask your child the very simple question, **“On a scale of 1 to 10, how does this feel?”** This also helps students develop the super powerful meta-skill of self-assessing their own mastery.

Would you like your child to receive **super-customized, one-on-one support** in developing their own math mastery mindset – so math becomes something totally doable and enjoyable?

Just click here to get started with your special application for my one-on-one math tutoring programs. Once your application is received, we’ll set up a special phone call to get clear if my approach would be a good fit for your child. I’m excited to connect!

Related posts:

The secret to getting straight As in math (it’s not what you think)

“Now I feel connected to math”

The Secret Ingredients of True Math Mastery

Do you wish your kid could feel like Albert Einstein?

Does having a math tutor make you a “loser”?

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