## What Parents Of Math-Confident Children Secretly Do (That Typical Parents Don’t) – #4

Friday, May 12th, 2017**4. Math-masterful parents are focused on the long-term process of mastery.**

Typical parents focus on just getting math over with.

Math is so stressful that they just want to help their kids complete their homework assignments as quickly as possible.

But this never gets below the surface to the actual root problems that are causing the math anxiety and stress.

In contrast, **math-masterful parents focus on whether their child is deeply understanding and internalizing the material, not just getting their homework done.**

As part of this, math-masterful parents are **proactive, not reactive.**

Instead of being in crisis mode, waiting to see if they have math issues, scheduling support only around tests, or reacting to the artificial rhythms of the school year, these parents **put support in place consistently and let their child’s mastery needs set the pace.**

Like athletes or performing artists, **math-masterful families train consistently.**

They still take breaks and vacations, but **use holidays and summer breaks as a powerful secret compartment** to catch up, get ahead, and stay connected to math—**to enjoy math on their own terms. **

This consistent training develops their own **inner math sanctuary** that supports them, once they’re back from vacation, **no matter what is going on in their classroom or curriculum.**

And because they invest this time and energy in consistent math mastery training, they end up having a **much more relaxed and happy school year**, because their child is actually confident and prepared.

As a quick example of this, one family came to me towards the end of 5th grade after **years of struggling with math and not getting what they needed from typical tutoring.**

We worked together throughout the summer between 5th and 6th grade—still taking some breaks, but making sure that this student was really connecting to math and loving it.

Her first day back of 6th grade, this student was the only kid in the room who knew what the commutative property was, and nailed question after question after question until her teacher just started laughing!

More recently, a student and I used her spring break as an opportunity to get ahead and really understand logarithms.

Just a few days ago she told me that she was the only student in her class who actually understood them.

And her mom now experiences her daughter’s school vacations as much more relaxing, because there’s no more math dread.

**Do you wish your child could go through this same transformation?**

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As soon as your application is received and reviewed, I’ll reach out to schedule a special appointment for us to connect on the phone and get clear on how I could best support your family.

I can’t wait to connect!

Sending you love,

REBECCA

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